Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Epic Disappointment



That is what best describes what has come to pass in the last 24 hours.

After lunch, I went on to the continuation of my quest to finally enroll in the community college of my choice and apply for passport renewal. It started really bad. The rain pelted hard on the window as the bus left the terminal. It promised not to let up anytime soon that my feet was sodden the whole time that I spend trying to blend in the young crowd.

Enrollment has never been this bad. It felt like I was beamed 20 years back when computers and internet were just jargon for the then young computer science course students. The queue was as bad and there was no clear instructions as to how to enroll. A simple flowchart with list of requirements posted on strategic places in the building would have been very helpful.

The saddest thing was that I queued last Monday with my requirements deemed complete with instructions to come back yesterday to enrol. That didn't happen though. My papers was subjected to another perusal and found to be incomplete. And so, another two hours was wasted waiting and two hours travelling to and back. It was so frustrating I wanted to scream my lungs out. I kept my cool but vowed to stay out of Community College and go back to where I truly belong, to my home once as an "Iska" (if they will have me again after being on AWOL for two terms).


In an attempt to improve how my day will end, I found myself riding a bus going to Bacolod. Dinner was an early affair with KZ (took an exam at a BPO) and Tim (scheduled to take his medical exam but missed) before we hit the theaters. The choices from last weekend were the same so we ended up with EPIC in 3D (the other choices being Bromance, The Apartment, Fast and Furious 6 and Star Trek which I watched two times already). It was alright, nothing fantastic and it did very little in uplifting my spirit. That or I don't really have my heart in any other activity anymore after a very bad start of my afternoon.

Then there's one matter at home that shocked the bejesus out of me. I was restless all night and feeling like a zombie today.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Community College Status: Admitted

Last Friday, I was on a quest. The list I prepared was quite long, I only managed to finished half of it. My mission was to get Standardized Aptitude Test for Teachers and process my application for a Passport.

It was a day of misses it seems to me now.

I started early. Unfortunately, I miscalculated completion by inadvertently not thinking about the presence (or absence) of signatories. For my passport application, Comelec doesn't have my Voter's ID yet, Police Clearance is not available until Tuesday and the lawyer who was supposed to sign my affidavit of loss was at the dentist.

We (JM, KZ and myself) arrived at the City College at sometime past 11. Guidance office personnel refused to give us the aptitude test with an endorsement from the Education Department. The irony is when we tried to get one, the officer in charge is out attending to the PRC staff that were there for the week and we were just given a signed slip to photocopy. By the time we were done though, it was time for lunch and we had to wait an hour and a half for the office to reopen for business.

On our trip to Chinky's for lunch, the driver took P10 per head instead of P8.

Back to the Guidance office at the designated time, we had to go out again to buy pencils. Three of the people queueing with us disappeared at the mention of P200 exam fees. Risking a bad impression of being pushy, I requested to get the exam started with the others as they might not be back anymore. The facilitator conceded but set it at 2. She said that the exam is good for 2.5 hours but save us all the trouble of following a strict timetable. That went well for me as I finished the whole thing in one hour flat. You see, I had to adhere to my schedule.

Murphy's Law: When it's bound to happen, it will. Well, it was bound to happen that I won't be able to finish my application for a passport renewal. As I have mentioned, the lawyer was out. So, I just accompanied KZ in taking SATT at WNU as her course of choice was already filled out at the community college.

To reward ourselves with half our list done, we spent the rest of the evening at Cinema 4 watching STAR TREK into the darkness with just a handful of other Trekkies.

Yesterday, I went back for the result of the Aptitude Test. I am intelligent alright (modesty aside: with a percentile rank of 91 in Math and 99 in Abstract Reasoning) but I have been found wanting in the non-intellectual part (hahaha).



Tuesday, May 21, 2013

What Makes or Breaks your Day?

Had I asked myself this eons ago, I might need some time to think. Long-suffering than most people I know, it takes more to irk me. With social networking and the internet though, that has changed drastically.

Lately, the main sources of my undoing are BBM, Twitter and FB. Luckily for BB and Twitter, there is only one source of my distress. Unluckily though, the discomfort of the posts there are the most hurtful that despite my best intentions of keeping mum, I am most often tempted (and unfortunately succumbed sometimes) to posting vile comments.

As for FB, the sources are many.

There's the usual hurtful tirade that I can't help reading (eternal sucker for self-flagellation. Boy, Self-flagellation must have been my surname in the past)

There's that cause so much delight to some (its about assigning monickers). Its sad to think back at how I was in the same place before and look where it has ended. It had to end at some point but I reckon, it's their time to learn the lesson first hand.

There's the nonsense exchange that I don't understand that it bugs me to death: Why? What's the point? What the hell?

There's the cryptic posts that has been the death of me.

Lesson is, it's cute to beat around the bush but it's safer and surer to get to the point.

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Happy Pet Moms' Day!!!

Somebody posted this photo on Facebook and it's relevance is just to difficult to ignore. I want to share this to my friends who share my interest, my joys and my pains in jointly raising seven dogs and a very old cat.



Let me introduce you to the lot.

Bjork  - Yeah, what's a cat doing in a kennel? Well, he came to us when we weren't ready for dogs yet. Dad saved his dad from imminent death in the garden just outside the kitchen of our old house. We lost Munich for causes unknown. Thankfully, it happened after he sired a liter with the dam living upstairs so we were able to get a kitten. He was barely a week old when he was weaned, I nursed him until he was able to eat by himself. He slept on my belly until he felt he was too grown up and took that warm place on top of the fridge. He has a penchant for chips and dog food.



Shifu - also called pooh turned five last month and the family celebrated for days. He came from the kennel of the Palancas in Victorias.


The day we decided to bring him home, he was the only one left of his litter when we came in to see and appreciate.

 It's cute looking back at how hard worked on being cute, sitting with one paw on the side of his carrier looking at us wideeyed with his tongue out as id to say, "I'm cute. Take me home with you". It was irresistible, we didn't even haggle.

Shifu has separation anxiety. Whenever sis or myself come back from being out of town for at least night, his standard greeting would be to evade the hugging and kissing. He would walk around us with his mouth opening and closing, sans sound, as if nagging (where the hell have you been). When he's had enough, then he would allow himself to get close and personal again



Cuchi - This beauty was named after a very sad place that sis happened to have visited before we got her. And like the place this girl have had some tragic experience of her own. At one point, she had to go through an operation to sew a main vein that got cut by a sharp object (we suspected a broken glass) during one of our afternoon frisbee game. She slept at the hospital.
She caused me my first tragic experience too of being subjected to anti-tetanus and anti-rabies shots. We were playing and somehow her teeth or paw grazed my palm and it bled. I wasn't sure which but to be safe, I went to the hospital for treatment.
It's a wonder that despite domestication, she has not lost touch with her hunting origin. She has asphyxiated quite a number of uncle's chicken that happened to stray in our playground
A model of humility, just like me (hahaha), she endures the dominance of Coco an Glad (my bff's belgian malinois).


Bella - You guessed right. The name was right out of the Twilight saga which was the trend at the time of her birth. She was with us for a year before she succumed to the complications brought about by her hip dysplasia. She chose her way and time to go, and that was quietly just after the day we moved her to our current home. What a sad day that was, with three girls crying like crazy while shoveling off dirt that was to be her resting place.

(That's Bella with the majestic Shifu) She's sick but not too surly to socialize.


Tara - We had her shortly after losing Bella. They have the same mom (fawn) and a black pug for a sire. She is quite a character besides her queer bad habit of eating poop when feeling neglected. She knows exactly when dad would rise for the day and would wait outside the door for some morning treat. When we used to sleep under one roof, telly time meant napping on my bosom. She is such a sweet girl.
For two consecutive years, she brought honor to the family for bagging the Best of Breed awards in the local annual Dog Show.


Coco - was named so after her color and after much debate whether to keep Mocha (her kennel name) or Duchess (to keep the tradition of naming after royal titles). We got her from our veterinarians (nice couple)  in Hingaran.
She had her first litter of six (of which only two survived ~sniff~ and grew into feisty overloved giant puppies to be shown later).
Having used to living indoors during pregnancy and whelping, she still crave for a lot of attention, you have to rub her body first until she's had enough to be cooperative during her morning walk.


Limbo - One of the two survivors, which I beheld when he came out of his dam's womb. I caught with my bare hands the slimy amniotic sac that protected him and Lucky in Coco's belly. He grew so fast and is still growing at a seemingly speed of light, I miss the time when he still fit on the dashboard. He's as hardheaded as his mom but sometime's I doubt his parentage whenever he starts to pull me around or grab and swallow everything on his way. This morning, he regurgitated a face towel and a hankie he managed to find in the trike we took the other night.


Prince - Was it February? I cannot remember now. We were looking for doghouses online to copy (for Limbo) when Mom wondered loudly how it would feel like to have a small dog with a long hair to comb and put ribbons on for a change? Sis need not be told twice so on the same week, we got Prince. He has become officially mother's. Nobody gets to feed and bathe him but her.
Well, he's noisy especially if there's someone at the gate and that usually starts a ruckus as all the other members of the kennel join in the gibberish chorus. And within the same week we had our last addition


Momo - Oh, the wonder of Sulit.com. Yeah, sis saw the ad on the site and went to meet the owners in the big city. He came home smelling like a Victoria Secret model. His quirk which was very noticeable was that he eats too damn fast. When sis met with the owner's again to get his PCCI papers, she relayed our observation. And, what do you know? He actually won some in an Eating Contest. Poor thing this is. I'm busy with the three giants that needs to be walked daily, sis with Pooh, Mom with Prince and Mary with Tara, hope one of us would make the time.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Moms' Day

Three children, two of which are anit-social, the trait must be hereditary. That, or mum is just plainly too tired to celebrate this day set for the unsung heroines of our lives, moms.

Shifu and I arrived at the house before mom and Prince did. But she was soon back in bed after breakfast following a complaint on aching parts of the body. So we made no plans whatsoever how to spend the day.

Since there was a promise of a hot day, I thought of sanitizing Cuchi's and Coco's shared home, some chore that has been neglected for the longest time. Boy, the grime as expected was nothing I have encountered before. No wonder both girls are not gaining any weight despite an increase in ration and supplements. With that done, bathing the three giants were in order (with the brushing of teeth reserved for the afternoon session - it was Limbo's first).



That done I tended to myself and went off on my bike and had my Sunday morning coffee at bff's. To pass the time looking for an excuse not to leave for Bacolod, we watched "ParentTrap".

It started to rain when I decided to leave for home. It was a quiet afternoon. I left Timeline at the Boxhouse so I decided to download the Ebook that Ping smsed she sent me the other day. It should keep me occupied tonight. While at it, downloaded The Secret World of Arriety, Pride and Prejudice, and songs by Phillip Phillips and The Carpenters for some variety on my repertoire. Did I mention I got an 8GB memory for my BB? Oh yeah, I did!

For dinner, we decided not to cook so we are having grilled chicken and pork  and Lindt Extra Fine for dessert
;)

This is going to be a very interesting night!

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Best OB Ever

A lot of good happened yesterday as I went about to scores of work-related chores that required me to traverse three cities.

First stop was Bago City to pick up SSS report submitted last February. Since I was already there, I decided to pass by the city college to enquire about the requirements for the 18-units supplemental teaching certificate. Besides NSO Copy of the birth certificate, TOR and Transfer Credential which I already have in my stash of documents, I still have to secure a certificate of Good Moral. Oh, and I also needed to take an aptitude exam (scheduled every Friday) which I opted not to take as my list was already long for the day.

As expected, I had a hard time getting a ride to Bacolod. By the time I alit  at HDMF, it was already 11:40 AM. My q number was 42 so I got confused as the monitor displayed 526. The guard explained that the number will revert back to 1 when it reaches 539 and so the long wait started. You have to give it to the cashiers. Between the two of them, they served 60 clients in an hour which is pretty impressive.

Earlier, I made arrangements with Junrey to have lunch together. As I finished late with my second errand, I took a taxi from Singcang to Lopue's East where he was already waiting. We took a Homesite jeep and asked to be dropped at the Tennis Court. During the short trip, a really odd guy across me started to ask Junrey about his phone: brand, specs, cost, if he could watch movies with it. It was very strange, I was able to breathe normally when he got off before we did.

What else to be had for lunch but "baby back ribs" which people go to Lord Byron's for. T'was my second trip. Those kids must be thinking about a lot of things at the time, our waiter forgot that I requested to have the BBQ separated from the meat. We had to remind him as well to serve our bevy. Tsk! No question though about lunch being filling :)

Back at the office, boss was around and she suggested that we use her car for our trip to TESDA. I took the offer right away. I was only too glad not having to wait outside for the rather scarce Pepsi-bound jeep, not to mention the multiple transport transfers and the heat of the afternoon sun.

Having private transport provided me with a different Talisay experience, with Lauro avoiding the major thoroughfare and passed through the city streets instead. Going back we took the Mountain view route from Lopue's Mandalagan to Circumferential road and took some pictures by Camella Homes entrance.


Back at the office for the second time, the boss ask me to stay for a long overdue TALK which lasted an hour.

It was already past 6pm when I was able to pick up the NC tarp (which Junrey edited) from the printers. I had to run to SM City to  pay bills (Sun, Globe, PLDT) and bought an order of Calzone from Yellow cab to satisfy a long-time craving.


Happy, fulfilling day personally and professionally!!!

Again, thank God!

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Off to wander and marvel at some wonder (that is Oslob's Butanding)

If Joy were with us, it would have been the third summer that we divas spent with each other's company (Disneyland in 2011, Guimaras in 2012 and now). For this trip, there's only Doc Bing, Atty. Nance (whose Bucket List #4 is the reason for the outing) and myself.

Like all the vacations that we've had, this one is nothing different. We didn't follow any schedule except that of A/C bus :) Due to the unforeseen traffic at Sum-ag bridge, we issued a challenge to Atty to save us seats and get the bus to pick us up at the old airport. After so much ado, she rose to the bait and we made it to the 9:30 trip. That gave us more trip options when we reached Amlan port. We left Negros soil with enough time to get to the resort before sunset. In between talks, I read "Para sa Hopeless Romantic" by Marcelo Santos III given to me by bff as a late birthday present. She said that I was the first person that the character in the book reminded her of (Waaaah!!!)
On the other side of the strait, we were subjected to local transportation fiascos. First, the trike driver charged us P10 for the less than a kilometer ride to Ceres Terminal. And the Ceres conductor who seem to not know where Tan-awan was, charged us P20 for the trip and dropped us nearly a kilometer away from our stop. Being excited at what we went there for, we let that pass, hiked our way down and found our resort. While Doki freshened up, Atty and myself changed into our swimming attires and took advantage of having the beach front to ourselves.

The surf was big but the water was soothingly warm, it was akin to spending some time in the jacuzzi. Summer must be sea lice season, we had to withstand a lot of nips here and there. But it was a small sacrifice to enjoy the peace of seeing the sun's light wane, giving way to thousands of stars winking through the dark skies.

Dinner was a short affair of Pork sisig and buttered chicken. No sooner did we convene at our small room and talked the night away. We slept so late that the sun was high already when we decided to join the living.
The requisite pre-butanding interaction briefing was two resorts away but our guide chose to get us there by banca. We did not complain. The earlier we start the, the better. The talk did not last a minute actually, then we were on our way:

1. there should be 4m distance between human and fish (but boy the gentle giants swam next to the boat with the boatman feeding them as we watch with delight from our boat)
2. the use of camera with flash is prohibited (an easy one to follow. we didn't have any submersible cam anyways)
3. human should not cause any splash when swimming (doable too)\
4. must wear life vest the whole time

I can say that I have been a very good tourist except for the part of wearing the life vest while at sea. It was impossible to dive and swim. And the thought of using the snorkeling gear was repulsive (you know what I mean). After the must-pose with two or three of the fish, I got back on the boat. Just looking at them is already a miracle. Only that I couldn't help wonder at what would become of these butandings with the existing ones already dependent on their human neighbors.

If there's one thing that's worth emulating in this eco-tourism industry in Oslob is that they use paddle boats instead of motorized ones that are being used for Dolphin Watching in Bais.


Thank God for making this trip possible...

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Cleaning Up

Oh, where do I start?

For how I fared these last two weeks, I have my girl friends to thank for.

Your candid and varied response to my report had me see things in a new light. Believe me that I know that what I had was something that has very little likelihood of going into fruition. But as you know, I am not the type to give up easily. For me, even the tiniest spark shows a promise that it can be fanned to a roaring fire (of whatever it is that is there).

Those whose ears I talked out personally or electronically, those whose fingers I challenged with typing in earnest, those whose nights and days I have borrowed, whose whose understanding and patience I have put into the test, I cannot thank you enough.

For the last twelve months (that went by so swiftly), I know that I have not been the person you have always known, i.e. vibrant and independent and rational. It's funny thinking that I have ran out of things to counsel myself  when I have been privy to a number of secrets to which I always have had something intelligent to say about.

I am really sorry for putting you aside.

I can't say that I am good but suffice to say that I feel better now.

If only I could cry this out.